After much demand, Lifestyle Lemonaid is excited to launch our Dear Miss Blondie column! A weekly column for fans and friends alike to email Miss Blondie your everyday questions. Anything from marriage, sex to personal hygiene – Miss Blondie has the answers. Think Dear Abby for today’s man and woman! So ask away… Email all questions to: info@lifestylelemonaid.com or go to our facebook page and submit questions to Miss Blondie at: http://www.facebook.com/#!/LifestyleLemonaid?ref=ts “
Dear Miss Blondie:
Lately my husband wants to have sex all the time and I have not really been in the mood. Do you have any advice as to how to hold him off or increase my sex drive?
From,
Not so into sex
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As if this is a bad thing? You should thank your lucky stars that your husband still wants you- and regularly! I have decided to tackle this question as the intro to MISS BLONDIE because this is the very topic that somehow creeps up at every Girls’ dinner. I believe wholeheartedly that you should NEVER say NO. We are all tired, we all multi-task daily, and many times the absolute LAST thing we want to do is have sex. However, I believe that if your guy is not getting it from you, he will get it elsewhere. That betrayal will be far worse than the ten minutes you have to put out to satisfy your man. And really, is it that terrible to have sex? If you just can’t get into IT, then fake it, prepare your list of things to do in your head, moan a few times, or fantasize about the hot trainer who helped you adjust your bike spin class. Happy Husband, Happy Marriage. The more intimacy you share with your husband, the more connected you will feel. Worse case scenario, if you are just not in the mood, then tell him to do his “dance” quickly because it is his session. I am not an MD but if your body just seems off, then consult a Doctor ASAP.
If your not into your husband you don’t want anything he has going into
If a women is mutitasked she can have a headache and sex at the same time